The New England Patriots receivers
may have dropped some passes in last night’s Super Bowl, but the worst offense
of the Super Bowl was Teleflora. In their television commercial, the florist
blatantly implied that men who give a $70 vase of flowers will be repaid with
sex.
Pundits are using that ad, along
with a few others, to prove the old adage that sex sells. Other ads showed
scantily clad women and one showed nearly all of David Beckham. Those ads are
saying, “You can look sexy by wearing/driving/using this.” That is much
different than what Teleflora’s ad said.
The florist’s ad said, “If you give
this to your woman, she will have sex with you.” Said another way: for a
$70 bouquet, women will have sex.
Clearly, the florist thinks women
are prostitutes. For a cheap $70 bouquet?!
I have three issues with the ad.
First, Teleflora is insulting
women. Teleflora is telling men to send a vase of flowers that says, "I'm
paying $70 for you to get naked." What self-respecting woman would fall
for that cheap gimmick? Ladies, how impressed will you be if your man's
Valentine's flowers are from that company?
Teleflora thinks women have low
expectations, low morals, and low standards. Contrary to what that company
thinks, women do not want flowers that say, "Get naked for this cheap
bouquet."
Second, the company is insulting
men. Most men are not so stupid to send an overt demand of sex to a woman they
care about. While men may have thought the model and ad were sexy (heck, women
probably thought so too), smart ones will know they would be sending the wrong
message if that gaudy red vase were delivered to a woman who saw that ad.
Third, I wonder how the company
treats its female employees. It is obvious that the company does not hold women
in high regard. How does that show up in department meetings? How do male
managers speak to women there? Are women compelled to downplay their
intelligence to get by in an antiquated culture? What were the meetings with
the ad agency like—did the good old boys who revere the agency in Mad Men listen
to any real women in 2012?
I say women should make sure that old sex sells adage is proven UN-true!
Ladies, tell your men you do not
want flowers from that company. Men, you know your woman better than the
florist does—if you know her expectations, morals, and standards are high,
don't send her a cheap, gaudy vase that sends the message you think she is
cheap and gaudy.
Don’t let the florist ruin your message
by sending the wrong one on Valentine’s Day.
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I find the ad very offensive as a woman. The bimbo in the ad is lovely, of course, but I've never flat out been offended by an ad that has a similarly scantily clad female or male advertising in this method. The offensive part is "Give and you shall receive" The company can deny that they mean 'sex' all they want, it'll be a blatant lie.
ReplyDeleteIf I were to receive roses from this company I assure you I would put them through my garbage disposal and promptly end my relationship with the man that sent them.
If I love my man enough I don't need flowers to be romantically invovled with him, especially around Valentine's Day...and I would loathe him if he thought that giving me expensive roses would make me more apt to do such things with him.
This ad is incredibly offensive and trashy and I am also offended that CNN repeats it after every 3 minute news clip I watch. Disgusting.
I'm just surprised at how little outrage is being expressed by men, here. It's as if Teleflora is laughing at them for being so simple, and it has to explain to them how they can score, which it implies they might normally struggle with (at least, if they want to score with a beautiful model). Way to undermine 60 years of equal rights efforts on both sides, Teleflora. "Hey guys! If you want her to put out, you have to pay! Flowers and shiny things are your way to her...heart!" Nice.
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