You are who you are

He was called a man of integrity, the kind of coach you would want your son to play for. But, over the weekend Ohio State's football coach, Jim Tressel, resigned amid a cheating scandal. In fact, Sports Illustrated described Tressel as having committed "the most egregious of sins for a coach in the eyes of college sports' ruling body".

When he was caught for misdeeds in the past, Tressel claimed ignorance of the rules. It does not appear that excuse will stand this time. This time, it appears he is saying he did it for the good of the boys on his team.

Is it acceptable to ignore rules for the sake of individual players, or one team?

No, it is not.

When Tressel became the coach of an NCAA-regulated team sport, he became obligated to know the rules and abide by all of them, even those he disliked.

The same is true for leaders of companies.

Once you join your company, you take an implicit oath to its Mission and rules. If you do not like the rules or the way the company performs, work to change them. Selecting to ignore them is not an option someone of integrity chooses.

You are who you are. If you have integrity, you have it all the time. If you make a mistake, own up to it. Covering it up and lying, which Tressel is charged with, are not actions someone with integrity chooses.

You are who you are. If you have integrity, you have it all the time. You don't turn a blind eye to the rules you dislike, the way some financial executives did in recent years.

You are who you are. You don't steal someone's business idea, call it your own, and take it to market, the way a local business person did in recent years.

You are who you are. If you lack integrity, even once, your reputation will suffer along with your relationships. Although you may not face a disciplinary board for each infraction, like Tressel will in August, your peers and coworkers judge just the same. They will see you for who you are and will distrust you accordingly.

When you look in the mirror at the end of each day, you know who you are. You know if you are working toward the company Mission, giving equal work for the pay given you. You know if you are breaking the rules, covering it up, and lying. Even if you justify such behavior, you know deep down that your behavior and integrity are out of alignment. You know it and those around you know it.

You are who you are, whether you like it or not.


More about Tressel:
Sports Illustrated: http://sportsillustrated.cnn.com/2011/football/ncaa/05/30/tressel.resigns/